DAY 26 PURPOSE - 30 DAY PRAYING FOR YOUR HUSBAND CHALLENGE

OPEN YOUR MOUTH WITH WISDOM

Are you? Are the following words part of your daily prayer and speech?

What good are you to me?

He never finishes anything?

When are you going to?

I can do better by myself?

Others? 

These and many more are a hindrance to the changes we long to see. Here's how the wise man puts it in Proverbs 31: 26

"She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness."

Do you watch over the well being of your spouse and household or are you critical and uses statements that will cause him to fail? Are you saying thins like...?

You will get a stroke or...when he makes bad food choices or habits?

You gonna bankrupt us?

You'll be dead by the time you.....?

Why can't you be like....husband?

I am not doing your job for you?

Refuse to get up and help when you can?

Are you laid back and lazy?

Wisdom from the man of wisdom states in Proverbs 31:27

"She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness."

It may be challenging as you look around the house and see the many projects and task that he has started and that are still incomplete. T

here maybe the unwise investments that once was a good idea, but he has not been touched them in a while or still wrapped up in the package it came in (the car he bought or other items that he would fix and sell, the electrical, plumbing or painting...., the plans to get a home, car or other purchases, the savings for the vacation or post honeymoon, the ring, dress, furniture, extra room or bathroom, cleaning of the garage, landscaping and other "I Owe You" and things on the honey to do list)..... Pray earnestly today:

TODAY'S PRAYER - (Revive Your Heart by Nancy Leigh DeMoss)

Pray that your husband will discover and live his God-given purpose. Pray that he will offer all his dreams to the Lord, and pursue only those goals that will bring God glory and count for eternity. (Jer. 29:11; 1 Cor. 10:31)

Pray as you watch out for those witty inventions and influenced by others goals that compromise his faith and you cause you to lose your home or need a loan or other means to settle.

TODAY'S FOCUS: IT'S TIME FOR A NEW STRATEGY

A wise woman builds her house and does not pluck it down with her mouth!

Don't eat the bread of idleness, but be a wise woman. Help your husband get to the place where God's purpose and plans can be manifested in his life. 

Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV)

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

ACTIVITY: (get out your journals)

BE A Proverbs 31 Woman STRATEGIST

Make a list of the things that need to get done. unfinished or promises made that have yet to be materialized

Write a strategic plan include name of task, list what needs to be done, when it needs to done and by whom- Please include yourself and see in which area you can assist. 

Initiate a savings plan for an item or vacation

Plan a clean up weekend, sort out the things that you can

Give him a personal journal and ask him to write his dreams, work together or

guide him through the process of accomplishing some of his goals

Please also include the things that were a bad investment or goals that are not in line with the word of God

After praying the scriptures for your husband bring your list up to God in prayer. Be patient through the process. Trust and praise God for the desired and expected outcome.

Remember, God has good plans for you and your husband. He wants to give you hope and a bright future. Use God given wisdom, don't be idle, but strategize using kind words and techniques to bring out the best in your husband. Give give gentle criticism in private, and always compliment and give credit in public. Complain less and praise often.

Speak what you want - You shall have what you say!

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God Bless and Keep The Faith!

Virtuous Jewel