INCONSISTENCY
Theme Verse: Ephesians 5:29
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
In many marriages, intimacy is inconsistent. The reason can vary. It may be because of illness, commuting or other extenuating circumstances. It could also mean that some men don't want to be bothered. Believe it or not- Women are not the only ones who hold back!
Whether you celebrate or not, get ready....
IT'S TIME TO "COME TOGETHER AGAIN!"
1 Corinthians 7:5 King James Version (KJV)
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Faithfulness is also another major problem with intimacy. Men your are advised by the wise King to drink water from your own cisterns and wells, and be satisfied with your wife only!
Proverbs 5:15-21 King James Version (KJV)
Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings.
Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings.
TODAY'S ACTIVITY- GET PHYSICAL
DISCLAIMER: THE ACT OF INTIMACY IS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY!
Single? Use for information only!
Do what pleasures your wife-However, I DO NOT condone, promote, suggest anal sex! I believe it is unnatural and unhealthy!
Reflect on the scriptures above, and on one of the meaning of intimacy-"an intimate act, sexual relations" answer honestly the following:
When last you touched your wife intimately?
Is your "coming together again" like a Sabbath - once a week,
Cylce-once a month, Seasonal-Once a quarter or Valentine's Day-once a year?
Do you schedule, plan or spontaneously engaged in intimate moments/relations?
Are you always grumpy, too tired or can't be bothered?
Do you avoid intimacy by overworking, watching TV or...?
Do you withhold intimate moments as punishment?
Is your desire elsewhere?
The scripture states that you should not defraud except it is with consent and only for a time that you may give yourself to fasting and prayer. However, are you always on a fast?
Here are some Dos' and Don'ts
Caress her affectionately - Don't grab her
Sensitively touch her - Don't manhandle her
Kiss her gently - Don't be a savage
Hug her tenderly - Don't try to smother or suffocate
Let her lead - Don't be pushy
Pleasure her - Don't be selfish
Compliment her efforts - Don't compare her
Let her love lavish you - DON'T CHEAT on her
Caution: Don't try to be intimate if you have not settled your morning argument! Sex is not the answer to problems and a plaster to every sore. Learn to communicate and be intimate!
Remember,
MARRIAGE IS A TEAM EFFORT-COMMON PURPOSE!
Don't be discouraged if she doesn't receive it at first or perhaps question your motive. Just do it- Get Close up! and watch God in the next 28 days!
Please leave your comments, and help another brother by sharing this post!
Facebook #28daystolovingmywife
Taking the risk-training to enhance your marriage and give the next generation a change to emulate.
Single? Use for information only!
Do what pleasures your wife-However, I DO NOT condone, promote, suggest anal sex! I believe it is unnatural and unhealthy!
Reflect on the scriptures above, and on one of the meaning of intimacy-"an intimate act, sexual relations" answer honestly the following:
When last you touched your wife intimately?
Is your "coming together again" like a Sabbath - once a week,
Cylce-once a month, Seasonal-Once a quarter or Valentine's Day-once a year?
Do you schedule, plan or spontaneously engaged in intimate moments/relations?
Are you always grumpy, too tired or can't be bothered?
Do you avoid intimacy by overworking, watching TV or...?
Do you withhold intimate moments as punishment?
Is your desire elsewhere?
The scripture states that you should not defraud except it is with consent and only for a time that you may give yourself to fasting and prayer. However, are you always on a fast?
Here are some Dos' and Don'ts
Caress her affectionately - Don't grab her
Sensitively touch her - Don't manhandle her
Kiss her gently - Don't be a savage
Hug her tenderly - Don't try to smother or suffocate
Let her lead - Don't be pushy
Pleasure her - Don't be selfish
Compliment her efforts - Don't compare her
Let her love lavish you - DON'T CHEAT on her
Caution: Don't try to be intimate if you have not settled your morning argument! Sex is not the answer to problems and a plaster to every sore. Learn to communicate and be intimate!
Remember,
MARRIAGE IS A TEAM EFFORT-COMMON PURPOSE!
Don't be discouraged if she doesn't receive it at first or perhaps question your motive. Just do it- Get Close up! and watch God in the next 28 days!
Please leave your comments, and help another brother by sharing this post!
Facebook #28daystolovingmywife
Taking the risk-training to enhance your marriage and give the next generation a change to emulate.
God Bless you and Keep the Faith!
Virtuous Jewel
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