CULTIVATE ROMANCE
During courtship whether you think about it or not, romance is displayed. Men are patient, buy gifts/flowers and are very gentle However, as they become comfortable and settle in marriage, time is not spent to cultivate romance, passion dies and life becomes very routine.
Theme Verse: Ephesians 5:29
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:Moving along to Phase 6, let's get romantic!
Women are saying, Romance is dead- Can we resurrect her?
TODAY'S ACTIVITY- IT'S TIME FOR ROMANCE
Men what's your view of the word romance?Here are some feedback:
Flowers, a cozy candlelight dinner, holding hands, spending personal time together.
Building on our first week's session of communication and this week's feed, you have prepared yourself for romance.
You are cleaned up, cleaned your environment/created a cozy atmosphere, got rid of the crowd, learnt your wife's love language and gotten "naked"
IT'S TIME TO WOO HER!
Have your relationship gotten stale? Pursue her like you did when you were courting her. (I'm sure you have some new ideas)
Has she lost interest? Seek her attention, flatter her with words of admiration, or her love language preference
Don't have money to do anything romantic? Turn on the music, let a lovely song serenade her and give her a cup of tea or a nice soft drink, take an evening stroll or a walk on the beach, let her lie in your arms, stroking her hair or massaging her shoulders...
Is she sad or perhaps bored? Strike her fancy-put on a show, get sexy with some new outfits (you not her) new boxers, cologne or hair cut...
Very routine life? Do something special-cook her favorite meal, write a poem, draw a scented bath, go to a cozy spot outdoors..
Have your relationship gotten stale? Pursue her like you did when you were courting her. (I'm sure you have some new ideas)
Has she lost interest? Seek her attention, flatter her with words of admiration, or her love language preference
Don't have money to do anything romantic? Turn on the music, let a lovely song serenade her and give her a cup of tea or a nice soft drink, take an evening stroll or a walk on the beach, let her lie in your arms, stroking her hair or massaging her shoulders...
Is she sad or perhaps bored? Strike her fancy-put on a show, get sexy with some new outfits (you not her) new boxers, cologne or hair cut...
Very routine life? Do something special-cook her favorite meal, write a poem, draw a scented bath, go to a cozy spot outdoors..
DO SOMETHING!!!
Caution: Get excited yourself. If you make this a dread or routine, she is not going to be engaged! Watch what you say and don't exaggerate about what you doing!!!
Remember,
MARRIAGE IS A TEAM EFFORT-COMMON PURPOSE!
Caution: Get excited yourself. If you make this a dread or routine, she is not going to be engaged! Watch what you say and don't exaggerate about what you doing!!!
Remember,
MARRIAGE IS A TEAM EFFORT-COMMON PURPOSE!
Don't be discouraged if she doesn't receive it at first or perhaps question your motive. Just do it- Get Close up, and watch God in the next 28 days!
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God Bless you and Keep the Faith!
Virtuous Jewel
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