Wednesday, March 12, 2014

KKW SERIES 3 - VAIN BEAUTY

THE CAKE KNIFE WIFE

She strikes with beauty and every other physical moves and features to lure her prey. She is beautifully decorated, but brings nothing but beauty to the table.   

IT'S ALL ABOUT STATUS WITH THIS KNIFE
  • Show piece at Barbecues, company parties or family events
  • Plays a good game 
  • Spotlight Entertainment
  • Not domesticated
  • Gives primary responsibilities to other caregivers and family 
  • Dresses and carries herself provocatively
  • Keeping up with the Joneses 
  • Intimacy is a chore instead of a priority or just sexual fulfillment 
  • Keeping up with latest fashion
  • High maintenance profile
Additionally Cake Knife Wife stays in the relationship only if she gets what she wants and can cause great hurt to her husband (or friendship - for those with these characteristics to family and others)  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  IS THAT ALL YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?

You may look at the above list and say, that's not me, but what do you say to the women who say things like....
  • "I am more beautiful than all his exes" 
  • "My beauty excites him"
  • "He loves being around me"
  • "I don't care what he does as long as he takes care of me"
  • "He got to pay for my looks"
Let's Discuss...
What do you think of this phrase, "Arm and Eye Candy"?
That's all you are to him if you bring just beauty to the table

Give the results of what will happen when the storm hits and or beauty fades in a relationship with a cake knife wife

THE CURE 
  • Seek God's approval not men
  • Believe in yourself, place value on yourself and know who you are
  • Be more than a trophy
  • Be a blessing not a burden
Let's Discuss...
How can a woman be a trophy?

Proverbs 31:30 (KJV)
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Remember it takes more than beauty to keep your relationship.  If The Cake Knife Wife does not get deliverance from the Lord, she will seek men and material things for approval and fill her void.  She will also live a very unhappy life.

KEEP THE FAITH

Virtuous Jewel

1 comment:

  1. Wow, this series reminds me of the time when our family went through a series of financial struggle. My husband said to me " Honey, I love you" You know why, he replied by saying he notice I never treated him any different, I did my obligations, home duties,etc. nothing never changed and he loved that about me. I replied by saying, babe, I came into this marriage without anything. I married you because I simply always loved you.... Lord help me not to be like the cake knife wife. Pastor Rhymer.. be encourage I love this series....Good job!

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