KKW SERIES 5 - CONCLUSION

IT IS FINISHED!

Our series has ended but our lives as wives continues.  Pray that you have surrendered all knives up and have taken on The Sword of The Spirit.

You are strengthened with quietness and meekness and are now well knowledgeable of the manner in which you should live in regards to communicating and dealing with your husbands.  

• Is it over?
• Does it end with the series?

TODAY'S FOCUS:  BONE OF HIS BONES AND FLESH OF HIS FLESH

When you no longer use your knives you become more connected.  You do not cut into or tear apart, you are not a smooth operator, you do not brutally attack, you are not short tempered, you do not live in your husbands pocket, you do not switch on him with your different moods, you are not just his trophy, you do not pretend and you are not phony, you are not abusive, you are not cutting his plans up and have gotten a handle on yourself but - You are now A Spirit-Filled Wife!  

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S ! ! !

You are now in harmony and understand your husband's like and dislikes, needs and what pleases him - 

YOU ARE BONE OF HIS BONES AND FLESH OF HIS FLESH!

You are a listener, a good communicator, a friend and a virtuous woman.

Genesis 2:23 King James Version (KJV)

And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

In your own words write and discuss the following:

• Bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh?

• How does this harmony relate to communication?

TAKE ACTION

You may not be able to erase the mistake of the past but you can make a difference in your future.  

1. Apologize if you have used any of the knives
2. Ask God to forgive you for your past behaviors
3. Use the Sword of The Spirit

Post the following scripture in a prominent place to remind yourself that you are....

A WIFE AND NOT A KNIFE!

Proverbs 31:26 King James Version (KJV) 

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

Remember......

Every wise woman buildeth her house, but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.  When you feel the knife coming out, pull out the Sword of The Spirit and experience the blessings of a virtuous woman who is a crown to her husband.  

Please tell me how you have enjoyed the series by posting your comments or email us at twigsministry@gmail.com 

I strong recommend that you purchase the book, Are You a Wife or a Knife? (Are you building him up or cutting him up?) by Vedia R. Jackson for your personal reference.  

GOD BLESS AND KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel 

KKW SERIES 5 - A SIGN OF TRUST

A MEEK AND QUIET SPIRIT

The Sword of The Spirit equips the Spirit Filled Wife to be meek and quiet.  This shows that she trust God.  She is not loud or perturbed.  She understands how to find rest in God and the word.  

Isaiah 30:15 (KJV)

For thus saith the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel; In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not.

This scripture denotes that her confidence is her strength so she does not have to use her former knives.

That also allows God to supply the Spirit filled wife with all her needs including wining her husband's heart.

TODAY'S FOCUS:  TRUST BUILDERS

Wives are taught today by society to become cold and hard when faced with tough situations.  As we discussed in our previous series, threaten and defend themselves in any way necessary.  After reading the above scripture and see that her strength is in quietness and in confidence, let's discuss.....

• How can a wife show confidence?

• How can she display a quiet spirit? (Does that mean she must be mute) Explain?

• How can she display the qualities of a trust builder?

• What strength can be gained as a trust builder and in having a meek and quiet spirit?

Remember if you allow God to supply your needs rather than becoming vicious and displaying the characteristics of the not permissible knives, you will be victorious and triumphant in your home and in your relationship.

GOD BLESS AND ALWAYS KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 5 - THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT

THE SPIRIT-FILLED WIFE

THIS KNIFE SHOULD ALWAYS BE HANDY AND NEVER BE PUT AWAY!

What is the Sword of The Spirit?

• The Living Word of God

• Powerful and sharp two-edged sword that pierces and is a discerner 

• THE KNIFE THE DEVIL HATES

• The Knife that builds the home

• THE KNIFE YOUR HUSBAND WANTS YOU TO CARRY

The Spirit Filled Wife uses this knife as she would her other common knives.  But this one is different.  She can use it to do some of the things she use to do with the others, but she does it to the devil.  She cuts up, abuses, she butchers and attacks him.  

She gets her "fill-ins" every day with the Sword of the Spirit - The Word of God!

TODAY'S FOCUS:  USAGE OF THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT KNIFE

List some ways that the sword of the spirit can be used in the following:

• Show strength
• Defend her home and family
• Build her husband and family
• Build her home and atmosphere 

Some may chose to use this knife in the negative sense such as: 

• Use scripture to point out fault and failures
• Use scripture to condemn or cast judgment
• Use scripture as a whip to withhold or punish
• Use scripture to manipulate or get own way

I pray that the right usage will be adapted to build your home

Remember, Chose to use The Sword of The Spirit Knife everyday instead of your common knives especially when you are faced with adversities.  

GOD BLESS AND KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel 

KKW SERIES 5 - LET'S CELEBRATE

HOW ARE YOU USING YOUR MOUTH?

Today, I celebrate another year of God's goodness and faithfulness!  It will take pages of this blog to pen down all his blessings and all that He has done for me.  

In our series we learned about the various knives that can be used to cut down and tear down.  

I want to bring a conscious awareness to you regarding how your knives are used.

You may not be The Meat Cleaver Knife Wife causing physical damage to your spouse or others, but you may just have used the knife if you are tearing down with your mouth.  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  LET'S USE OUR MOUTHS TO CELEBRATE

Our monthly fast is directed to our family.  Today is dedicated to our sons.  I know this series is for wives to husbands, but our sons are going to be husbands some day.  

How is your mouth used over your sons or the sons of others?

Are these statement familiar to you?

• You just like your Dad  (A Dad who is not a good example)
• You will end up dead if you keep this up
• You are no good
• I hate you
• You are messed up
• You are dumb and stupid
• I regret I made you
• I will disown you 
• I will kill you
• You make me sick
• .......................... (your own statement)

Although you may say them when angry, hurt or perhaps just casually, please know that your words have power and cause knife effects.   

HOW IS YOUR MOUTH HEALTH? Let's discuss...

• Have you used or make statements like the above, or perhaps other statements, about your son or others that may create a knife effect? (What were they? Confess them.)

• Confess the following scripture over them today

Proverbs 25:4 ((KJV)

Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.

• Call up your son today, pray and speak life over him.  (If you don't have a son, take time to pray for sons today.)

• Review the knives and see which ones are used and apply the cure

• Celebrate your son today.  Celebrate the fact that God has blessed you with a son.  Celebrate his positive and bright future.  Celebrate his salvation, purpose and destiny in Christ Jesus! 

Remember, you shall have what you say.  Use your mouth to bless even when it seems impossible to do so.  Pray and turn everything about your son to God.... for with him, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 5 - NO KNIVES - BETTER WIVES PART 1

A CALL TO PRAYER 

YOUR KNIVES HAVE NOT DONE THE TRICK NOR CAN IT GET THE JOB DONE!

Today we call you to put down your knives for a better life.  Wives, mothers and women, you are summons today to the prayer room at 12:00 Noon to pray that all women especially mothers become more virtuous women and pray for the strength ability and will to discipline and train their children.  

Just call 1-470-888-9447 to join and connect with other prayer warriors who will intercede and storm heaven for your deliverance and victory.  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  USE WISDOM NOT KNIVES

Proverbs 24: 3 (KJV)
Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established:

Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

A look at these scriptures indicate that it will take a wife not a knife to be able to follow the instruction and wisdom provided.  

There are many reasons why so many mothers and others avoid the disciplining of children.  However, many of you  can testify, had it not been for a praying mother.......

Tell us....

• How did your praying mother helped formed your life?  (Mother/Grandmother/Other woman who did) 

• What are you doing as a mother to instill the wisdom guide to your children or to other children?

• What if anything stands in the way or hinders the proper training and disciplining of children today?

Remember to train and discipline use wisdom and understanding - NOT KNIVES!

United in prayer today, may God give you strength for the journey. 

KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 4 - CONCLUSION

CHOPPING - DIVIDING - RUSTY

We are now aware that these characteristics do not enhance, strengthen or build our husband but more so do not please God.

TAKE THE PLEDGE TODAY

I, ____your name__________ will no longer be an abusive, dividing and rusty knife wife. I will no longer threaten my husband's physical or emotional safety.  I will listen to his plans and trust God to take care of any mistake that will be made.  I will do a self image check and keep myself looking good for him, myself and the Lord.  With God's help, I am now ready to be transformed in Jesus name.   AMEN.

GREAT - YOU ARE NOW READY!

TODAY'S FOCUS:  TAKE ACTION

Review the blogs for the week in series 4 and ask yourself, how can you take action to correct, enhance or maintain in the three (3) knives discussed for the week.  

• Chopped Liver - The Meat Cleaver Knife Wife
• United We Stand, Divided We Fall - The Scissor Wife
• Get A Handle On Yourself - The Dusty Rusty Knife Wife

In taking action be practical and honest and let's discuss...

• Which one of the above stood out more to you?
• Is there a relationship with the other two? (In what way)
• Take a survey: ask your husband or someone else to point out any of the above they see in you.  Was it the same one you identified?  

If survey says......  OUCH! MAKE CHANGES AND APPLY THE CURE!

Accept your survey in humility.  Don't send your husband to the corner of the roof.

Proverbs 21:9 (KJV)
It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. 

REMEMBER..... DON'T THREATEN, LISTEN AND LOOK GOOD!

GOD BLESS YOU, ENJOY A WONDERFUL WEEKEND AND KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 4 - GET A HANDLE ON YOUR SELF

THE DUSTY RUSTY KNIFE WIFE

Have you forgotten about your appearance?  I'M GUILTY

MY CONFESSION....
As a bank manager I would be from very early in the morning looking like a million plus bucks, (even if I didn't pay much for the outfits because I was a bargainer and always looking for a good sale woman), because duty called for the professional look.  Even when I got home in the evening that mentality of appearance is key stayed with me and I put great effort even with my evening wear.   In that season, if I had to go to the next door grocery store, post office or out of the house I would have a cover magazine image. 

My mother and father were also great and classy dressers, and we grew up wearing frilly socks and ribbons at home.  

But.... 
I have noticed over the past year,  since I have given up that profession to engage in personal ministry to my husband and calling,  I have neglected to be a crown to my husband and instead have taken on that trait of The Dusty Rusty Knife wife.  Not out of oppression or depression, lack or want (because I have more than my closet and drawers can hold), but because I have become comfortable with a t-shirt dress or a wrap, and haven't paid attention to my nails, hair and other niceties.  Not that I am untidy (far from it) but the professional career me has become a regular backyard cleaning woman.  After a hard day that's what often greets my husband at the door.  

You may say, comfort is in at home.  But does it have to be the oldie?  While I can agree, what happens when someone honks at your door?  You run to the bathroom brush your hair throw on a hat and change your rags splash on perfume (even if you haven't had a bath for the day) and come out smiling.                                                   
OUCH - I WAS GUILTY!!

OK NOW THAT I GOT IT OUT.....  WHAT'S YOUR CONFESSION?
Why can't you do the same for your husband?

TODAY'S FOCUS:  CHECK YOUR SELF IMAGE                                              "The Dusty Rusty Knife Wife husband is looking for the woman he married!"

Do a self check as we look at the following:

• How is your self image?

• Are you a Dusty Rusty Knife Wife?

• Are you a Crown to your husband?

• Is your appearance an embarrassment and speaks poorly of Him?

• Do you need to upgrade your wardrobe?

DO YOU NEED AN INWARD MAKE OVER?

What's happening on the inside could also be a reflection of your outward appearance.  

Although it wasn't totally true for me as far as unhappiness, being down or have depressed feelings, I realize that because I was moving I was constantly in a work mode.  That took priority over how I looked and kept myself.  

LET'S DO A CLOSET SEARCH

What's also amazing is that some Dusty Rusty Knife wives do not get rid of the old stuff.  (The old stain up dress, slack and torn undies with the elastic broken, the popped slippers, the holey outfits etc...) No sooner they go in the wash they get put on the top in our drawers and worn immediately.  

Even if you are not married, it is important to start now, because practice makes perfect and permanent.  Like Ruth you never Know if and when Boaz is watching.  

GIVE YOUR HUSBAND SOMETHING TO LOOK AT TODAY!

Proverbs 12:4 (KJV)                                                                                                                    

A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.

• Give yourself a makeover and make his homecoming exciting

• Remove the temptations around you. Clean out your closet and drawers of old, tarnish or broken things

Remember... 

You must win your husband with your manner of living with meekness and confidence on the inside which will radiate on the outside.  Don't let yourself go!

TO HELP REKINDLE THE FLAME AND KEEP HIM INTERESTED, KEEP LOOKING GOOD!

Keep the Faith

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 4- UNITED WE STAND, DIVIDED WE FALL

THE SCISSORS WIFE

SNIP SNIP SNIP SNAP!!!  She cuts off his plans, does not even give him the respect or listen before she snips away.  

She only trusts her ideas and goals.  His goals and plans does not matter. She cuts herself off and separates herself if she is not in agreement with a decision he makes.  

DOES THAT SOUND LIKE YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW?

Is it your/their way or the highway?

Scissors are good for many things and can be used appropriately to shape or cut off a pattern.  But most times the Scissors Wife cuts off the pattern and mars it.  That's what happens when a husband brings out an idea and you snap it.  The idea is snipped, and you can affect his identity.  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  "MISTAKES ARE NOT FAILURES"

Men need women to believe in them even when they make a mistake.   

• DON'T PENALIZE 
• EXTEND MERCY
• EXERCISE PATIENCE AND TRUST

Matthew 12:25 (KJV)

And Jesus knew their thoughts, and said unto them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself shall not stand:

USE THE CURE

• Listen to your husband's plans
• Trust God to take care of all mistakes

THINK ABOUT....

• Any plans that you have snipped - How can you make amends?

• Mistakes that you are holding - Are you penalizing?

Remember...YOU TOO MAKE MISTAKES.YOU CAN HELP! 
"What they miss in the natural you can help them catch in the Spirit."

KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

THANK YOU

THANK YOU!

I would like to take the time to thank each of you from various parts of the world for taking the time to visit and read our blogs daily.  

Thank you for allowing us into the privacy of your lives to minister to you.  

We know that many of you read the blogs but are not commenting and would really appreciate your feedback and interactions.  

Today I ask that you let us know how our ministry has blessed and encouraged you.  

If you have any topic of interest you, please feel free to relay them to us.  

You can also email us at twigsministry@gmail.com if you prefer to contact us personally.  

We pray that God will continue to extend His mercy grace and favor upon you. We exhort you to be encouraged, cleave unto the Lord and enjoy the blessings in this season of your life.  

Acts 11:23

Who, when he came, and had seen the grace of God, was glad, and exhorted them all, that with purpose of heart they would cleave unto the Lord.

REMEMBER TO KEEP THE FAITH!

Shalom

Bishop Melvin and Pastor Julie Rhymer

KKW SERIES 4 - CHOPPED LIVER

THE MEAT CLEAVER KNIFE WIFE

The Meat Cleaver Knife Wife comes from an abusive and violent background and have a spirit filled with violence.  

She carries layers of hurt from physical abuse of her past and that can cause her to threaten others.  

She comes with a defensive mindset.  She is always in a violent position to defend anything that crosses her path.  Anger is at her top trait which puts any of her victims in harms way and easily becomes a prey.  

Do you see yourself either mentally or physically causing harm to others?

TODAY'S FOCUS:  YOU NEED THE CURE!

TAKE ACTION:  List some of the things you can do from the cure below

• Don't threaten

• Seek and Ask for Help

• Learn Anger Management Techniques

Remember...

2 Corinthians 10:4 (KJV)

For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;

Don't use the world's methods and weapons but use the weapons that yours through the power of prayer.  Surrender your anger to God and let Him turn your temper into triumph.

God Bless - Keep the Faith!

Virtuous Jewel

KITCHEN KNIFE WIFE SERIES #4 - CHANGE YOUR APPROACH

DISCRETION AND LOVE

Today's Proverbs Challenge coincides with our Kitchen Knife Wife Series 

HOW QUICK ARE YOU TO EXPOSE?

Proverbs 17:9  (KJV)

He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.

If we change our approach towards our husbands, friends and others we will begin to express and demonstrate God's love. But if we are a separator we will use our knives. 

TODAY'S FOCUS:  CHANGE YOUR APPORACH

As we look at the picture below do we see knives coming out of our telephone and other private and personal conversation?                       

• How do we approach our Husbands?
• How do we approach our friends 
• Are we quick to cover as we are to repeat a  matter?

But most importantly......

• How do we approach them?]

As women we are considered fair, virtuous and rare jewels.  BUT...

WE CAN MESS IT UP AND LOSE OUR CROWN IF WE DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT APPROACH!

The wise King Solomon puts it this way.... 

Proverbs 11:22 (KJV)                        

As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.

Discretion -

1. the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.

   "she knew she could rely on his discretion"

   synonyms:

   circumspection, carefulness, caution, wariness, chariness,guardedness;

2. 2.

   the freedom to decide what should be done in a particular situation.

   synonyms:

   choice, option, preference, disposition, volition

Remember..... You have a choice and an option to: 

• Use discretion when dealing with mistakes and faults
• Let your speech be appropriate even when you are upset
• Behave appropriately
• Wait for the appropriate timing

God Bless You - Keep The Faith!

Virtuous Jewel

CAN YOU SWALLOW IT BACK?

WOULD IT BE SWEET?

If you were asked to take back a word today, Would it be sweet going back in you or would it be so offensive and dirty that it would contaminate you?

TODAY'S FOCUS:  Proverbs Challenge Scripture of the Day 

Proverbs 16:24 KJV
Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.

It is often said, watch your words in case you have to eat them.

Here are some things to think about...
Would the above scripture be applicable if you thought about...

• What you said to your spouse lately?
• The last conversation you had with your parents?
• The way you scolded your children?
• What you said about a friend or someone at work?

Today and everyday make it your conscious decision and focus to let your speech be always seasoned with salt that it may minister grace to the hearers. More importantly consider how it would feel if said or done to you or .....
WOULD IT BE OFFENSIVE TO THE LORD? 

HAPPY SUNDAY!

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 3 - CONCLUSION

KITCHEN SEARCH

Moody and Unstable and can't make up your mind makes you a candidate for Mrs. Jekyll and Mrs Hyde - Switch Blade Knife Wife which will result in unstable emotions.

Chances are if you have been nothing but a trophy, provocative and played a good game your unhappiness is as a result of you being a Vain Beauty - Cake Knife.

Oh, so now you can't take the heat because you have been pretending all along, and you have nothing to show for that phony and dishonest facade.  Stop pretending and be real with with yourself, God, your family and friends.  Let The Real Mrs Stand Up and stop being The Plastic Knife Wife.

TODAY'S FOCUS:  IT'S ABOUT TIME YOU TOOK ACTION!

• A - Acknowledge and accept the areas where you've identified with
• C - Confess and commit them to God in prayer
• T - Take responsibility and don't cast blame
•  I -  Implement the cure
• O - Observe without judgement and critical comments   
• N - Never give Up or take your relationship for granted

MY ACTION PLAN

Reviewing the series for this week and a close look at the traits and knives above...

• Which knife do you identify with?

• Is there any area in the action plan that would be difficult for you to do?                   (Why/Why not)

• Can you help someone who you have identified with any of these traits?                  (Please help and share this blog with them)

A wise woman builds her house and must have the fear of the Lord

Proverbs 14: 26

In the fear of the Lord is strong confidence: and his children shall have a place of refuge.

Remember to measure your progress - Get feedback from your spouse, children, friends and others.  

Have an awesome weekend and may God Bless you!   

Keep the Faith

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 3 - WILL THE REAL MRS. PLEASE STAND UP?

THE PLASTIC WIFE KNIFE   (Book -Kitchen Knife Wife Sessions by Veida R. Jackson)

Watch Out for her traits... 

Dishonest - Nothing she says can be trusted, not open and truthful.  

Pretends - To be someone she's not or agrees to be okay about something but not; live a life of facades and is very imaginative.

Very Entertaining - Likes to give gifts and make everyone feel comfortable, does a lot of house or other get-togethers to entertain others as a front for a perfect life and happiness. 

Lives in false prosperity - Make others believe that her marriage, finances and things are great, brags about places she's been, gifts received and successes of her children and other imaginary possessions.   

SHE IS SOOOOO PHONY (Not the cosmetics of nails hair and accessories but...)

• Tells her girlfriends and family how much her husband loves her and how great her marriage is when she hardly sees him or gets anything for the bills
• Tells co-workers on Monday how great her weekend and trip was when she never went anywhere
• Wants to keep her outer image high and would pressure her husband to give her things, go places or to get into extra expenses to keep up the show

BUT>>>She can't stand the heat or the pressure because she is.... PLASTIC!

TODAY'S FOCUS:  THE REAL DEAL

Results:

1. List some of the ways the characteristic traits of The Plastic Wife Knife can affect other good women and their relationships?
2. List some things that the Plastic Knife Wife can expect if she continues to pretend?

Any attribute of The Plastic Knife Wife is NOT from God!

THE REAL DEAL IS THAT GOD REQUIRES TRUTH!

Psalm 51:6 (KJV) 

Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.  

Vedia Jackson say, that God doesn't want us to look and act like the truth but never bears fruit.  So... GET THE CURE!

• Stop Pretending to be
• Be Real with God, your family and friends
• Don't run from your problems - face your troubles - Deal with root issues

Remember, God wants us to be truthful and fruitful in our hearts as well as in our actions. They must reflect each other.  When we do that we will also help others be fruitful in their own lives.  

KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel

T

KKW SERIES 3 - VAIN BEAUTY

THE CAKE KNIFE WIFE

She strikes with beauty and every other physical moves and features to lure her prey. She is beautifully decorated, but brings nothing but beauty to the table.   

IT'S ALL ABOUT STATUS WITH THIS KNIFE

• Show piece at Barbecues, company parties or family events
• Plays a good game 
• Spotlight Entertainment
• Not domesticated
• Gives primary responsibilities to other caregivers and family 
• Dresses and carries herself provocatively
• Keeping up with the Joneses 
• Intimacy is a chore instead of a priority or just sexual fulfillment 
• Keeping up with latest fashion
• High maintenance profile

Additionally Cake Knife Wife stays in the relationship only if she gets what she wants and can cause great hurt to her husband (or friendship - for those with these characteristics to family and others)  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  IS THAT ALL YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?

You may look at the above list and say, that's not me, but what do you say to the women who say things like....

• "I am more beautiful than all his exes" 
• "My beauty excites him"
• "He loves being around me"
• "I don't care what he does as long as he takes care of me"
• "He got to pay for my looks"

Let's Discuss...

What do you think of this phrase, "Arm and Eye Candy"?

That's all you are to him if you bring just beauty to the table

Give the results of what will happen when the storm hits and or beauty fades in a relationship with a cake knife wife

THE CURE 

• Seek God's approval not men
• Believe in yourself, place value on yourself and know who you are
• Be more than a trophy
• Be a blessing not a burden

Let's Discuss...

How can a woman be a trophy?

Proverbs 31:30 (KJV)

30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Remember it takes more than beauty to keep your relationship.  If The Cake Knife Wife does not get deliverance from the Lord, she will seek men and material things for approval and fill her void.  She will also live a very unhappy life.

KEEP THE FAITH

Virtuous Jewel

KKW SERIES 3 - MRS. JEKYLL & MRS. HYDE

THE SWITCH BLADE WIFE

SHE IS MOODY, DOUBLE MINDED AND EMOTIONALLY DANGEROUS!

Her mood change is very normal for her.  Her husband, or if she is single her friends and associates, have no idea how to approach or communicate with her on a day to day basis.  Her mood shifts everyday.  

The Switch Blade Wife takes her frustration off on everyone and leaves everyone puzzled and confused.  

TODAY'S FOCUS:  SHE LOVES ME - SHE LOVES ME NOT

James 1:6-8 King James Version (KJV)

6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.

7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.

8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.

As you read this posts notice the variety and variance of the colors from one extreme to the other.  This is just how a Switch Blade Kitchen Knife Wife is. She loves or feels love one minute and the next minute she feels unloved and unwanted.  She enjoys one thing today, or wants something now and changes her mind on the switch.  There are so many people who are affected by the characteristics of that Knife.  

Using the scripture above answer the following:

• What are the some of the things that can be expected in a relationship with some one who is double minded?

• What are some of the spiritual consequences? 

As you go along your way today think of some ways to..... 

APPLY THE CURE!

• Cast your burdens on the Lord 
• Release your emotions daily to God
• Let your will be in line with God's will
• Have Faith

Remember a double minded person shall not receive anything from the Lord - You can't risk that, so KEEP THE FAITH!

Virtuous Jewel