THE ROD OF CORRECTION
Proverbs 29:15 KJV states...
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
This scripture holds most truth as I watch children in churches, supermarkets and shopping malls run up and down the aisle, scream yell and cry for things, throw tantrums even hit their parents. Sometimes parents are embarrassed at the behaviors, but yet they will not discipline them.
Some claim that they are too small, they are kids, you even hear the term "kids will be kids" and they are allowed to break and destroy their stuff, touch adult stuff, parents have to move things out of their way in the home etc....
Today many parents, government and other agencies are against using the rod (beating) as a means of correction and discipline.
Today for various reasons children are reporting parents to these agencies when they are disciplined, and because of this many parents are fearful and reluctant to beat their children.
I know this may be another touchy and sensitive subject especially to parents and other adults who do not believe in using the rod of correction. Again I ask that we share and comment with respect.
TODAY'S FOCUS: THE USE OF THE ROD AS A FORM OF CORRECTION
Note: We are NOT discussing today child abuse or aggressive assaults but required disciplines, a slap, a good belting or whipping that is not in any form of outrage or harm.LET'S TALK: What are you views on the five (5) questions below:
- Do you think the rod, (belt, slap whip etc..), should be used as a form of correction? Please state why or why not
- At what age should children be beaten with the rod?
- What are your thought on "Spare the rod and spoil the child"?
- What are your views on the term, "Kids will be Kids?
- Should the rod of correction be done in public?
Also please feel free to share with your friends/family circles.
God Bless
Precious Jewel
As a parent I considered myself blessed to be able to bring forth a child. According to his word “The Fruit of my Womb will be blessed”. As a blessing, it is my responsibility to raise this child correctly not only according to the law of the land, but also according to his word. The law does not state “we cannot discipline our children” it states that “we cannot be aggressive when during the process”. When I raised my first child, I starting speaking to him by the time he was 8 months, you may say 8 months that’s crazy but to me he responded. As he got older 1, 2 (which some of us consider terrible) I just looked and spoke and he knew what that meant. Did I have to give an old fashion beating at times, YES after I gave the warning! Sometime as parents we give warnings and we don’t follow through and this is where we go wrong. Once you give the warning you have to do what you need to be do, maybe with and explanation, just so they understand. Just like with Christ, before he does anything he gives a warning.
ReplyDeleteAs children grow, if they are properly disciplined, by the time they reach 12 years of age the beaten process definitely should subside. I am not saying totally yet, however it should be minimal. Imagine if you never discipline your child, do you know how unfortunate our lives would be. When you don’t discipline it sends the message that I can do what I want. “Spare the rod and spoil the child” is exactly what happens. When the bible state “Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him” it tell us we have permissions to with beat with care and love.
“Kids will be Kids” oh really, well a parent is a parent, and my(our) job is to nurture, care, discipline and all the other things are required to the do. That terminology is pure foolishness. Kids, they fight with other kids, kids take the grease you just bought and smear it all over them, kids make mess and then we help clean it up. Parents who use this terminology use it as a scapegoat because they know or refuse to discipline the child. I remember once, my co-worker brought her son to the job and another co-worker of mine said “hi sweetheart” the little boy turned around and just SLAPPED her right across the face. You know what the parent said “just say no thank you next time”. I was astonished, I turned and I said LORD THANK YOU JESUS, because I would have definitely given that little boy and old fashion beating. This is what she said when I said that to her “Kids will be Kids” and once again I say “OH REALLY”…
WOW! Great Feedback! I commend you for taking your responsibility as a parent in line with God's discipline. I agree that as children grow the beating should lessen. As a matter of fact it should not be the only form of discipline. I also agree that with proper correction beating will not be necessary into the teen life. If it is necessary don't spoil the child! Again if a child understands from home do not touch or else and the disciplines are instilled you will not have to walk with the rod. God bless you and I pray that you children will be an example and you will help others along the process.
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